Sexual health & intimacy
Also known as:
Sex after menopause, erectile dysfunction, intimacy in midlife
Pain, dryness, desire and erections all change with age. Most changes are treatable.
Written and reviewed by Farhan Tahir, MD · Last reviewed
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Common changes
• Dryness and pain with sex from genitourinary syndrome of menopause
• Lower or different desire
• Erectile dysfunction, which can be an early sign of heart disease
• Body changes and relationship stress
What helps
• Lubricants for sex and vaginal moisturizers for daily comfort
• Low-dose vaginal estrogen for persistent dryness and pain
• Pelvic floor physical therapy for pain and tightness
• PDE5 inhibitors for erectile dysfunction, after a cardiovascular check
• Sex therapy or couples counseling
Good to know
Talking openly with your partner and clinician is often the first effective step. Sexual health is part of overall health and deserves attention at any age.
Key studies and references
Educational content only, written and reviewed by Farhan Tahir, MD. It does not replace individual medical advice. For sudden chest pain, trouble breathing or stroke symptoms, call 911.
AT A GLANCE
Category
Mind & intimacy
Also known as
Sex after menopause, erectile dysfunction, intimacy in midlife
Reviewed by
Farhan Tahir, MD
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